What do you want?

I want a guy who notices the little bumps on my feet that I inherited from my father’s side. I want him to NOT notice that one of my cats will occasionally use corners of my house as a restroom. I want to be comfortable enough with this guy to sit on his couch with my feet curled under me and not just “sit normal”. Everyone wants something out of a relationship and it makes me wonder if it changes from when you are at my stage to 6 months to a year or when you promise to love one another forever. I bet it does. What, dear friends, do you want and how has it changed?